to host

it's a lazy day today, going back through old journals and even blog posts, realizing i've been blogging for four years this month! primarily about words--because words are mainly how i see, understand and share the world--but also about many adventures, experiences, questions, movies and recipes along the way in an effort to connect us. many of my musings and conversations of late are around the idea of hosting others. that could be at a dinner party, over coffee or even just in quick few-minute interactions. even as i think of the approaching lenten and easter season, am i able to empty myself to truly make room for God, others? with what i keep inside, how might i offer that in a way they can best receive? am i willing to be on the receiving and not just the giving end of hospitality (receiving sometimes being trickier and requiring more grace)? what does hospitality truly mean? it could be as simple as a spontaneously cooked meal together or as elaborate as a five-course feast. most people's favorite experiences were when the host was relaxed (including if they were relaxed AS the host). a relaxed host plus beautiful food and surroundings seems like having the cake and eating it too. i thought i would celebrate my fourth year in the blogosphere by asking you, "what are some of your best memories either hosting or being hosted? what do you remember and why?"